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Dreadful Costumes: Manage Your Anxiety

girl zombie horror against red wallHalloween can be an exciting time of year. It is a time filled with spooky stories, costumes and haunted houses. For some, however, this time of year brings added fear, anxiety or panic, especially when choosing a Halloween costume.

Today’s blog comes to us from Kelly Dunn, MA, LPC, a Staff Therapist in The Family Institute’s Cognitive Behavior Therapies program.

Choosing a costume can be a high pressure choice whether it is for a public event like a party or for your child to wear to school. There is pressure to be original and look spooky and/or sexy while not breaking the bank. It can be marked with indecision and anxiety about how it will be perceived. Or perhaps you are crafting your own costume. This comes with its own set of worries about negative evaluation from others. If this sounds familiar, then you are not alone.

Here are three tips for managing costume anxiety.

1. Try some relaxation. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy utilizes deep breathing as a simple form of relaxation that you can use anywhere. Check in with yourself and notice if your breathing tends to be shallow or rapid — that might be a cue to take a few deep breaths!

2. Consider an alternative perspective on your worries. It is impossible for your costume to be ALL things at once. Try to aim for just one — spooky or original or inexpensive. If you are making the costume, consider all the creativity, time, effort and talent that it takes compared to purchasing one at the store.

3. Observe your timeline. Are you rushing to get things done? This can add to your anxiety or worry. Are you spending too much time making a decision, shopping for costumes or crafting one considering you will likely be wearing it for just a few hours? This lengthy time investment might be too large compared to the outcome, and contributes to extra anxiety or stress. Instead, try to make a specific plan and stick to it, considering the time and materials involved.

If you think that you or someone you know suffers from anxiety, or if you would like additional information, please call The Family Institute at 847-733-4300, ext. 668, or email us at cbt@family-institute.org.

Kelly Dunn MA, LPC is a staff therapist on the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy team at TFI. She specializes in treating depressive and anxiety disorders.

The Family Institute offers affordable, effective mental health counseling for families, couples and individuals in Evanston, Chicago, Northbrook and Westchester. Learn more about our services on our website.

MENTAL HEALTH MONTH: ASK A CLINICIAN

To commemorate Mental Health Month, we asked clinicians a number of questions about mental health. Today, Hannah Smith, MS, LMFT, shares her reflections on mental health and offers helpful hints for working towards good mental health.

smith_hannahHow do you define mental health?

I define mental health as psychological, emotional, and spiritual well-being that impacts our way of relating to the world, ourselves, and our surroundings.

How are mental and physical health connected?

From my perspective, mental and physical health are intimately related, in that our mind and bodies do not operate independently but are consistently interacting through feedback loops to help us understand how to best respond in any given situation. We can utilize our physical bodies to create calm and healing in our internal psyche and we can intentionally care for our mental health, and, in turn, experience strengthening and change in our physical bodies.

What are some tips for good mental health?

Remember the importance of breath as a regulator of mood.

We are intimately wired for connection – make time to cultivate connection and meaningful moments with those that you care for and feel understood by. This will help us be more productive in all facets of life.

 

Hannah Smith, MS, LMFT, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist at The Family Institute. She has a particular passion and commitment to working with couples and addressing unresolved family of origin issues and how they impact intimate partnerships. Ms. Smith is a member of the Couples Therapy Program at The Family Institute and has training in Yoga Informed Psychotherapy.

The Family Institute offers affordable, effective mental health counseling for families, couples and individuals in Evanston, Chicago, Northbrook and Westchester. Learn more about our services on our website.

Mental Health Month: Ask a Clinician

To commemorate Mental Health Month, we asked clinicians a number of questions about mental health. Today, Sara Morrow, MSMFT, shares her reflections on mental health and offers helpful hints for working towards good mental health.

How do you define mental health?

My personal definition of mental health is the well-being of our emotional selves. Of course, this mental well-being can interact with out physical health (and vice versa!), and so it is hard to separate the two!

How are mental and physical health connected?

They are definitely linked! I work with a lot of anxiety and see this. It makes sense: if you’re always keyed up, tense, or on edge, this creates a feedback loop that the brain picks up on! This leads to a “vicious cycle” of body stress feeding into mental stress, which further exacerbates physical stress. And on and on it goes!

What are some tips for good mental health?

The “little” stuff matters: are you eating healthy, balanced meals throughout the day? Are you sleeping adequately? Exercising regularly? How much alcohol do you consume per week? Log all of these things for a week and see what the relationship is between these factors and mood.

Eraser deleting the concept Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, OCD.As a Cognitive Behavior Therapist, you specialize in working with clients with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). What can you share with us about OCD?

I treat Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Many people feel shame around this disorder or think that everyone has “some” OCD to a certain extent, so why seek help? Doing a course of Exposure Response Prevention Therapy (ERP) can be very effective for OCD — and it is worth getting help for it as OCD can be very debilitating! I also encourage partners and family members to come into therapy to learn about the impact it can have on them and also how they can best handle and support their family member who is struggling with OCD. It impacts the whole system surrounding a person!

 

Sara Morrow, MSMFT, is a Clinical Program Fellow with The Family Institute in the Cognitive Behavior Therapies program. She has advanced specialized training in using Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy in the treatment of Depressive Disorders, Anxiety Disorders and Obsessive Compulsive Disorders (OCD).

The Family Institute offers affordable, effective mental health counseling for families, couples and individuals in Evanston, Chicago, Northbrook and Westchester. Learn more about our services on our website.

Breaking the Stigma of Mental Illness

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One important way to help prevent larger mental health issues is to work against existing stigmas of mental illness and treatment. People are more likely to seek out the help they need if they aren’t ashamed of it — and breaking the stigma will allow that to happen.

Watch Family Institute staff clinician Reginald Richardson, PhD, LCSW, say more about how on CLTV:

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Substance Abuse: Symptoms & Prevention

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Shattered brown beer bottle: alcoholism conceptWe go to the doctor when we have severe pains, fevers or other physical symptoms. We take vitamins, have routine checkups, exercise and adapt our diets to prevent physical illnesses. As we commemorate Mental Health Awareness Month at The Family Institute, we’re talking to our expert clinicians about the connections between physical and mental health, as well as what can be done to prevent more serious mental illnesses.

Today’s insights on substance abuse come from Amy Drucker, MSMFT, LMFT, an associate marriage and family therapist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University.

 


 

Using substances to numb or dull our emotional experience (because guess what, they have that ability to change our physical experiences, and as we’ve discussed physical and mental/emotional health experiences go hand in hand) is not only common, it is arguably an unaddressed epidemic. Substances work very well to numb out the discomfort and unpleasant emotions we may be experiencing. People will turn to substances because they struggle to tolerate the emotional distress they may be feeling. Perhaps at first it was just a mood they were looking to temper, and did so with substances; but quickly, because substances “work well” in altering our experiences and tempering those unpleasant feelings, it can become a state of being that they are looking to temper and they turn to substances.

Substances have a direct effect on our nervous system, digestive system, adrenal system, you name it, the substance affects it! Substances used consistently can permanently alter our physical baseline functioning. Needless to say, substance abuse is an issue that deserves attention.

Some of the symptoms of substance abuse or overuse that should or could be indicators one should seek some type of mental health treatment are as follows:

  • Feeling the “need” to have the substance
  • The substance is the ONLY thing, or one of the only things, that makes you feel better
  • Using the substance more frequently
  • Using the substance earlier in the day
  • If the substance is there, you are unable to say no to it
  • Experiencing negative consequences from using the substance (physically feeling ill, financial losses, interpersonally relationships start receiving less attention, legal ramifications, lower moods–for example–alcohol is a depressant, long term use and one is apt to feel depressed)
  • The substance becomes more important than other realms of your life (work, relationships, health)
  • If you try to conceal the quantity or frequency of your consumption/use of the substance
  • If you start noticing physical side effects from over use of the substance
  • If NOT using the substance leads you to have physical side effects

 

There is an overwhelming stigma around addiction. If you think that you have a problem with substance abuse, there is no shame is reaching out for help. The shame develops when one does nothing to help themselves, and they begin to believe they deserve a life of addiction. Many people think that addiction is a choice, defined by a lack of will-power; it is my belief that addiction is far more complex than that and substances have a multifaceted impact on humans beings and at a certain point, the power to choose (if that power was ever there in the first place, many argue it is not) to use the substance or not no longer exists. Addiction and alcoholism is intensely isolating, and leaves people feeling helpless and hopeless. When one can recognize their use and/or abuse and be proactive about addressing it, there is hope and a possibility for a different life.

 

Substances offer temporary relief from whatever is contributing to a person’s unease and emotional distress. As the relief is temporary, the need to use more or use more frequently will undoubtedly become part of the vicious cycle. What one would benefit from doing is to seek more permanent and long term solutions for their emotional/mental health and stability. Some ides of more long-term solution behaviors are:

  • Seeking counseling for learning how to understand and tolerate our emotions more readily (thus the need for the substance to temper distressing emotions diminishes)
  • Seeking the support of loved ones and friends (social support is a huge buffer between individuals and substance abuse)
  • Engaging in activities that boost physical (and simultaneously emotional and mental) health
  • Getting involved in things/hobbies that interest you (a new project at work, an art class, a sports league)

 

For those who may know their substance abuse has gotten to a point where they need specific and intensive substance abuse help, there are outpatient treatment services, inpatient treatment services, detoxes (if one’s use has become so prevalent they need to be medically monitored as they get the substances out of their system), and spiritual programs such as Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, SMART recovery, and others.

 

The Family Institute at Northwestern University offers affordable counseling for couples, individuals and families at our four Chicagoland locations. Please visit our website to learn more about what we do.

How are Mental and Physical Health Connected?

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Diverse Hands Holding The Words Mental HealthTo commemorate Mental Health Awareness Month, we asked a number of our clinicians the question:

How are Mental and Physical Health Connected?

From Brooke Hartman, LCSW:

There are no ways in which physical and mental health are not related! I believe the  whole person is both mind and body, the health of each affecting the health of the other.  People with poor mental/emotional health are more at risk for chronic physical problems, and people with chronic physical conditions are more at risk for poor mental/emotional health- at any age.

WHO also states in its constitution, “There is no health without mental health.” Mental health is a component of physical health.

 

From Amy Sprague Champeau, MSMFT, LMFT:

In my opinion, it is frequently difficult to separate physical and mental health since what happens in the body affects our minds and hearts and vice versa.  Many psychological disorders, such as depression and anxiety,  also involve difficulties with sleep, touch, digestion, appetite and arousal.  Physical illness and pain often contribute to emotional distress.  And emotional distress can lead to a variety of physical symptoms.  This is particularly true in the area of trauma.  Bessel van der Kolk, MD, a psychiatrist known for his  research on post-traumatic stress, famously stated that “the body keeps the score”.  This means that our bodies are the repository of what we experience in our lives. For example,  trauma (any experience — physical or emotional — that overwhelms our system), produces actual physiological changes including a recalibration of the brain’s alarm system, an increase in stress hormone activity and changes in the ways our bodies and minds filter information.  After trauma the world is experienced with a different nervous system. In the aftermath of trauma, our attempts to maintain control of physical and emotional reactions can result in a whole range of physical symptoms, including digestive distress, autoimmune diseases, chronic pain, etc.

 

 

 

The Family Institute offers affordable family, couples and individual counseling at our Evanston, downtown Chicago, La Grange Park and Northbrook locations. Visit our website to learn more.

 

Anxiety Disorders: Symptoms & prevention

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We go to the doctor when we have severe pains, fevers or other physical symptoms. We take vitamins, have routine checkups, exercise and adapt our diets to prevent physical illnesses. As we commemorate Mental Health Awareness Month at The Family Institute, we’re talking to our expert clinicians about the connections between physical and mental health, as well as what can be done to prevent more serious mental illnesses.

Today’s insights come from Jenny Welbel, LPC, a staff clinician with the Institute’s Cognitive Behavior Therapy Program.

 


 

A Natural State of Anxiety

Anxiety is a natural state that everybody experiences and that is designed to protect and prepare individuals. Therefore, a healthy amount of anxiety can enhance performance in school or at work (driving us to study harder or prepare longer for a presentation) and it serves to protect us from danger.

However, transient anxiety becomes problematic and may be symptomatic of an anxiety disorder when it is persistent, highly distressing, and impairs everyday functioning – making it difficult or even impossible to carry out the things we need to do at work, school or with our loved ones. For example, it is expected that a high school senior may be anxious about where he or she is going to college. But, if this same college senior, is spending hours worrying about where they are going to school, loses sleep because he or she is filling out dozens and dozens of college applications, and gets so nervous before college interviews that he or she gets sick, the individual’s anxiety is no longer considered productive or helpful. Similarly, many individuals may get nervous before meeting new people. But, if an individual is so nervous about meeting new people that he or she avoids social functions all together, or experiences frequent panic attacks before any social gathering, he or she may be struggling with an anxiety disorder.

In addition, it’s important to keep in mind that given that although a certain amount of anxiety is normal, and often productive, there are some things that could take normal anxiety and make it abnormal. Specifically:

  1. Sleep: Maintain as regular of a sleep-wake time as possible. If your schedule gets disrupted because you had to pull an all-nighter, start the next day by getting up at your regular time.
  2. Alcohol: Some people try to cope with stress and anxiety by using alcohol. However, alcohol can make it less likely that you will use healthy coping strategies in the moment, may increase the number of stressors in one’s life, and can make anxiety even worse the next day.
  3. Avoidance: We all tend to stay away from things that we don’t like, but if we do so because the thing in question causes us fear or anxiety, we may actually be perpetuating the fear.  For example, if an individual avoids giving presentations because he is afraid that he will embarrass himself, he is preventing himself from learning that, most likely, his fear does not come true. And, if it was to come true, he could handle it better than anticipated.

 

Know Your Own Cues

Mental health  is a state of emotional and psychological well-being and balance.

Maintaining that mental well-being and balance is different for everyone — some people use yoga, exercise, religion or other activities to try and keep themselves balanced and feeling well.

In addition to those personal activities, another important way individuals can work to maintain their own mental health is by knowing their own cues that something is off. We often know when we’re off balance and things just don’t feel right. Cultivating that self-awareness so that we can identify moments of struggle is a way we can help prevent larger issues. It’s important to ask yourself: When you feel anxious, how long does it normally last? How are you able to cope with it and/or manage those feelings? If you know those details about yourself, you’ll be able to more easily identify moments when anxiety is lasting a bit too long or interfering too much with your everyday life — and then get the help you might need.

 

Reducing Stigma Leads to Prevention.

While knowing our own cues that our mental well-being is off-balance is an important way to help prevent larger mental health issues, it can only go so far. Many people do recognize that something is off-balance — but then don’t seek out help because of the stigma surrounding mental health treatment. By reducing that stigma, we could help those individuals feel safer and more secure in getting the help they need, possibly preventing more severe issues that result from a lack of treatment.

By creating environments — families, workplaces and schools — that are more open to discussions of mental illness and less judgmental of what they actually mean, we will create safe spaces for people to talk about their struggles and ask for the help they need. For example, while many workplaces and schools offer accommodations for people struggling with anxiety disorders, some individuals may feel embarrassed or ashamed to actually seek out those accommodations. By reducing the stigma surrounding mental illness and creating a more accepting environment, workplaces and schools can encourage those individuals to get the help they need.

As a society we need more policies in place to help reduce this stigma, and more awareness. If parent, teachers, caregivers and other individuals know what to look for and how to handle it, we can get to the issues earlier and prevent further problems and complications.

 

The Family Institute offers affordable counseling throughout the Chicagoland area. To learn more about our therapy and mental health services, please visit our website.

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